If I'd known you were so strange I would have avoided you

After some thought I decided to redact this post. The gist of it was that when you meet an abusive person in the tactile world you can usually tell, esp if they're kind of crazy and yell a lot. When you're online you miss the clues, like the fact that the person is wearing only a trashbag (to use as an example an actual shouty person I used to pass on the way to work) and you don't always realize right away that engaging with them is a very bad idea that will only frustrate you. Most likely you know what I mean.